I guess the first thing that most mommies wish is that their sons or daughters are happy and healthy. From my short experiences in mommyhood, I have found that if I lead by example my son Ryu pretty much copies as I do. For example, since I say please when I ask him for something he does the same when asking me or anyone else for something. Sound pretty self explanatory huh?
No, it's not as easy as that I have come to find out! This is something that has to be constantly ingrained otherwise they forget! My struggle that I have with my son is that he is a very active get down and dirty little 2 year old. Ryu is always on the move. When he is not climbing or trying to figure out how my very patient cat works, he is running, jumping, climbing (always climbing on anything and everything!!), and dancing. When Ryu entered the toddler phase I really struggled trying to down cups of coffee just to keep up with my ever moving little child. Then I discovered a way to channel his energy in a way we both could be happy and healthy. The following are pictures of Ryu in his first karate class. You'd be amazed at what your little baby is capable of at such a young age! I have enjoyed karate since elementary age and continue to enjoy it even more with my son. So, all in all, you can find something you both enjoy doing and lead a positive path for your little one.
(Ali Jafari) www.beyattkarate.com